She said mothers have told her in the past that she's lucky to be single as she gets todo what she wants. I disagree with this thinking. I know that what has changed in me when I became a mother is not my own ability to get or do the things I want rather it is my idea of what I actually want.
From enjoying glamorous parties and trips I now look forward to quiet and messy mornings watching movies while snugging in bed. Or finger painting or watching your kids swim or learn a new craft. And i can honestly say that I get more pleasure in these things over the things I used to do.
completely true. i'm a shadow of my former self. i've changed so much i dont recognize myself. i find pleasure in the very things i used to think were pathetic except now i find they invigorate me like no other. things i used to not enjoy, i enjoy bec of my kids. although, they CAN be a pain and they do pose restrictions. motherhood is not without sacrifices. but for each one, even the sacrfice is already a reward in itself. eg) i sacrifice my love for staying home to travel with the kids, and i actually enjoy it.
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